聪明人,五不说

时间:2019-07-14 来源: 佛学
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作者:Shofu

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如果你不理解别人的心,那么管理你的嘴。

柏拉图有一句名言:“智者说话是因为他们有话要说;傻瓜说话是因为他们想说。”

每个人都可以说话,但不是每个人都知道该说些什么,不该说什么。

所有人都说他们会失败,真正的智者从不说这五个字。

01

谈论较少的废话是一种美德。

在过去,一位同事是一位“发言人”,很长一段时间都可以说一件小事。

你问了他一件事,他说了很多,他没有给你留言;

你正在努力工作加班,但是他在你周围晃动,你会被问到你是否很忙,你在午餐时吐痰太糟糕了;

你和他谈过工作。他从乔布斯那里得知松下由纪佑有很高的评价,但他交出的最后一件事并没有舔他的嘴唇.

蔡康永曾吐出这样一个人:

“早餐”和“口才”是两回事。与一个窃窃私语的人一起度过一个小时是非常沉闷的;但如果你和一个喋喋不休的人一起度过十分钟,你就会想要互相残杀。

这些话并不可怕。可怕的是废话是一个口号,没有任何说法。它消耗你自己的能量和他人的时间。

真正聪明的人说话整齐而尖锐。

他们不喜欢掩饰,转身,只是说些什么,只是给你准确的信息;

他们不容易表达自己的意见。他们在说话之前一定要周到。

这种语言比一种语言更昂贵,麻雀数千次,而不是像雄鸡那样响亮。

If you have time to say some nonsense nonsense, it is better to sink your heart and do the things at hand, so that what you say is more valuable.

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02

Not to mention harsh words is a kind of education.

Is there such a person around you, his mouth is more poisonous than a snake, and he says that he is just a straight man.

You bought a new dress, she said that the fat man in this dress is not good-looking, so that your good mood will come to an abrupt end;

The boyfriend gives you a gift, you see it as a treasure, but she said that it is worth a few dollars, not as good as her boyfriend;

When you are promoted and raised, she is sour and slick in the back, adding to you.

If you are not happy about this, she also said that you are stingy.

Good words, three winters, and bad words hurt people in June.

A mean word, it seems insignificant, sometimes it is more embarrassing than a knife, but it sweeps people's happiness, but it hurts people's hearts.

Remember, the poison tongue is not humor, but a mouthful; it is not straight, but not educated.

A well-educated person will definitely consider the feelings of others and make them comfortable.

When you are better than him, he does not say gossip;

When he is better than you, he doesn’t say anything big to show off;

Even if there is a misunderstanding between you, he will not say bad things that are unfounded.

Those who speak harshly will only become lonely people who are disgusted by everyone; those who speak comfortably can make more friends and gain more love.

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03

Not easily promised is a kind of respect.

《史记》There is an allusion: "It's better to get a gold jin, it's better to have a season."

xx这是一个名叫季布的人,他有一封信和一封信。只要他答应了什么,他就会做任何他想做的事。他的承诺比黄金更有价值。

遗憾的是,坚持像吉布这样的承诺的人越来越少。

我经常听到有人在酒桌上谈论它。我会说我的项目是数千万。我会说我知道哪个名人很大,我有所帮助。

如果你真的向他寻求帮助,他会轻拍他的胸部并承诺让你感到安心。结果,你等了很久,仪式也送了很多,但他后来悔改,让人开心。

其他人在借钱的时候说,他们支付了工资并立即归还了你。后来,如果你不提这个,他会忘记它;

你曾经帮助过他,他说你必须在第二天吃一顿大餐,然后就不会有了.

这些似乎很小,但经过很长一段时间,他们会慢慢透透一个人的可信度。

那些喜欢吹嘘的人总会吹牛皮;那些撒谎的人最终会撒谎。

如果你答应说出来,那就别忘了。最好不要在开始时达成一致;如果誓言可以随便打破,那么这个人就不值得相信。

古人说:“没有承诺不轻,所以我不对人负责;承诺不可信,所以人们不忍心。”

承诺,而不是吹牛,不仅要尊重他人,还要尊重自己,这并不容易。因为您的承诺是您最好的名片。

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04

争论并不是开明的。这是一种开放的态度。

有时候,我们经常会遇到一些让人烦恼的无意义的争吵。

我记得当我上大学时,有一个新同学的晚餐。服务员送了一个水果盘。有人说这是葡萄。另一个人立刻跳起来纠正它是一个葡萄干。

两个人都不甘示弱,你一言我一语,从争论水果是什么,上升到攻击对方无知没素质,搞得那次聚餐不欢而散。

后来,大家聚餐时再也没叫过那两个人。

心胸狭隘、目光短浅的人,最喜欢和人争辩。

他们为了争一口闲气,一点芝麻小事就要揪住不放。得理不饶人,无理搅三分,白白浪费了大量时间和精力,却争不出个所以然。

林肯就曾说过:

任何决心有所成就的人,决不肯在私人争辩中耗费时间。争辩的结果,包括发脾气,失去自制,其后果是难以让人承担得起的。与其跟狗争辩,被它咬一口,倒不如让它先走。否则就算宰了它,也治不好你被咬的伤疤。

夏虫不可以语冰,井蛙不可以语海。

永远不要和不同层次的人争辩,因为那只会消耗你自己,让对方叫得更来劲。

懂你的人,无需争辩;不懂你的人,再怎么争辩也没用。

不是所有人都配得上你的解释,与其试图说服别人,不如专心做好自己。

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05

少说心里话,是一种明智。

经常听到有人感叹,人心难测,做人真难。

就像我表妹,刚毕业工作不久,就跟公司的一个同事特别投缘。她们一起吃饭一起加班,几乎无话不谈。

表妹觉得同事就像大姐姐一样,就把什么事都跟她说。

自己的恋爱烦恼啊、对领导同事的一些看法啊,想到什么就说什么。

没想到,这位同事转个身就把这些话添油加醋地告诉了别人。

xxxxThe leader began to be cold to the cousin, and other colleagues often pointed to the cousin. In the end, the cousin was really unable to stay in the company and had to resign.

As the saying goes, the exchanges are shallow and deep. Most of the interpersonal disputes are because people who are not worthy say what they should not say.

Everyone only said three points, not all of them.

Don't be like Xianglin, it's not easy for people to say that they are not easy. Others will only look at your jokes;

Don't be silly and sweet, and put your heart and words out, it is not frank, but stupid.

If you don't understand someone else's heart, then manage your mouth.

Not everyone can feel the same about you, not everyone is willing to keep a secret for you. In your heart, please speak only to those who are trustworthy.

This is not only a wise but also responsible for yourself.

《蔷薇园》There is a saying: "It is better to say no words than to say nothing, it is better to be silent than to be silent."

Talking is a university question, it is worth living for a lifetime.

Whether it is work or being a man, a fool speaks with his mouth; a wise man speaks with his head, and a wise man speaks with his heart.

May we all be a smart person who can speak, a wise man who knows silence.

mutual encouragement.

xx
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